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تعارف · a marriage compatibility platform

السلام عليكم — peace be with you

Know exactly who you're dealing with — before you meet.

One honest profile, answered at your own pace. Then let your wali, a trusted matchmaker, or the wider community put real, vetted prospects in front of you — instead of searching alone.

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Work through everything that actually matters — deen, character, family, money — honestly, at your own pace.
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Be Discoverable
Your wali, a trusted matchmaker, or the wider community can now put you forward as a real, vetted prospect — instead of you having to go looking.
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Direct Connect. Already know each other? Share your code with them, then you each answer honestly, apart.
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Before You Meet
Partner Compare Journal
Take your time. No need to finish every question in one go. Complete one section, then talk it through with your partner before moving on. You can stop and come back any time.
Opens your browser's print dialog — choose "Save as PDF" to send a copy.
Journal

How this works

This journal builds a complete picture of the person you are getting to know. After every conversation, write down what you learned, what stood out, and what you want to remember. Over time this becomes a comprehensive record you can review on your own or with your wali before making a decision.

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Complete your profile and answer the questionnaire
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Review results together and identify topics to discuss
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Have face-to-face or phone conversations about the flagged areas
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Record what you learn here after each conversation
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Download the PDF and review everything with your wali or trusted advisor
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Pray istikhara and make your decision with clarity

Add a journal entry

Structured Report
Quick Note

Generate from notes (AI)

Paste your raw notes or a transcript below. AI will read it and fill in every section of the report. You can review and edit before saving.

1Header

2Overall impression

2–3 sentences. Your honest gut read after the conversation.

3At a glance

Quick flags. Add one at a time and press Enter.

4Alignment map

Mark each area based on how this conversation went.

5Topics discussed

Thread each topic separately. Heading + what was said.

+ Add topic

6Tensions and resolutions

Any disagreement, concern, or point that didn't land cleanly — and how it resolved (or didn't).

+ Add tension

7Open questions

What you wanted to ask but didn't, or follow-ups for next time.

8My reflections

Your honest read after the conversation — what this tells you.

9Decision / next step

One line. What happens next.

Your Timeline

Wali Report

Share the full picture with your wali

Generate a beautifully styled PDF that brings together everything in one document — your questionnaire alignment, every conversation journal entry, the AI compatibility analysis, and outstanding questions. Hand it to your wali, parents, or trusted advisor so they can see the full picture of how conversations have been going.

What's in the PDF:

  • Cover page with names, date range, and session status
  • Executive summary and at-a-glance flags (green / amber / red)
  • Alignment map across every chapter and key area
  • AI deep-dive analysis — per-chapter, journal-driven themes, strengths, areas for discussion, risk factors, recommendations
  • Every structured journal entry, rendered in full
  • Outstanding questions aggregated from all entries
  • Closing duʿāʾ

Takes ~30 seconds — the AI reads every journal entry before writing the analysis. A print window opens when ready; choose "Save as PDF" to download.

When to regenerate

Regenerate the PDF after every major conversation, every new journal entry, or before any meeting with your wali. Each PDF reflects the state of the record at that moment — no PDF is archived server-side, so take a copy if you want to keep history.

Or: a quick Connection Summary

A shorter, card-based digest — the stages of the connection at a glance, styled like your Journal — rather than the full report above. Essentials Match and Overall Resonance, the journey so far as a timeline of real takeaways from each conversation, what's come up (positive and concerning), and what's still open. Reuses whatever compatibility analysis you last generated on the Results page rather than running a new one — it's quick, just a few seconds to lightly clean up any quick notes into readable takeaways.

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